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Don’t you love the titles of porn films? This film does involve bisexuality and scenes with a “her” and two “poles,” but there’s no sign of any manic-depressives.

Lukas is napping when Harek gets into his pants and starts stroking his cock. He soons starts sucking Lukas, and busty blonde Jana, who had been reading, joins in. Jana continues to suck Lukas as he leans over and sucks Harek.

Jana strips and gets in between the two guys, who both seem interested in her. As she sucks Lukas, Harek licks her pussy. The action is varied somewhat as the two guys kiss, but Harek continues to stroke her. Then the guys combine forces to give her a two-handed handjob to orgasm. I’ve never seen that before.

Jana gets on Lukas and rides him reverse cowgirl. Harek assists by alternately stroking her pussy and pulling out Lukas’ cock to suck it.

Then they form a tower of fucking. Jana rides Harek’s cock, as he rides Lukas’. After a while of that, Jana gets off to suck Harek’s cock.

Harek then fucks Jana from behind, as she sucks Lukas.

Lukas goes around to fuck Harek, who licks and fingers Jana to multiple (apparent) orgasms. For a gay guy — if he is gay — Harek sure seems to know his way around a woman’s body. I’ve never seen a straight or bi movie that gave so much attention to the woman’s orgasms. She then sucks both of them off.

Well, that’s just the first scene, but I’m exhausted. Maybe I’ll review the other two scenes another time.

Note: I’m not sure about the characters’ names. They’re not used in the video itself — the little dialog is a weird mix of German and German-accented English — I got them from reviews on the Web.

Hey hi, all,

Women know what we want. In recent decades, we have become more open about our sexual desires and interests. We have made clear what we want from our lovers and from our erotica.

Some women — not all, mind you, but a significant number — are interested in homoerotic words and images.

Sexuality author Tristan Taormino wrote in Girls Love Gay Male Porn:

The phenomenon of straight women who love gay male porn has been documented and was discussed plenty when flocks of females gushed over Brokeback Mountain. When women came out of their fag-loving closet, it illustrated the flip side of a common theory: Plenty of straight men love girl/girl porn because they want to see lots of who they lust after. The same is true for het women: They like to look at hot naked men fucking, and it doesn’t really matter that they’re fucking each other.

Kera Bolonik writes at Nerve.com, a publication focusing on sex:

[W]hen it comes to visual stimulation, nothing makes me hotter than watching two men going at it.

It’s not just professional writers of sex columns. Average women writing in to advice columns are taking pride in their interests. In Dan Savage’s Savage Love, a woman letter writer says:

I, for one, think that all married, straight wannabe cocksuckers should be encouraged! I’m one of those women who loves to see a man get busy with another man. But most straight men I know, even the kinky ones, are too busy protecting their fragile, homophobic male egos to experiment.

Another woman posed her question to the advisors at the Times of London:

I am a straight, happily married woman in my forties. I have recently discovered gay male porn and find it arousing. Is this unusual?

The two advice columnists answered, basically, “You go, girl!” Check out the whole article, though. It’s worth a read.

In Japan, there’s even a whole genre of comics depicting homosexual relationships for the enjoyment of a mostly female audience.

Unlike some women who write about their love of homoerotica, I don’t want to just sit back and watch. I want to be with those hot guys! If I can’t be there myself, I want to see another woman with them, so I can imagine myself in her place.

As I have written before (here and here), bisexual pornography often portrays two-men, one-woman threesomes featuring man-on-man action. (This is known as MMF. If you have the same gender lineup, but the men don’t do anything sexual together, that’s called MFM.)

While I like bisexual pornography (enough to start the Wikipedia article on it!), and I will write more about it another time, it’s not what I want to write about today. Bisexual pornography, like most porn, doesn’t seem to be aimed specifically at women; most of it is made by men for men. The focus is on the men, rather than the woman’s enjoyment. Sometimes the male actors even come from the world of gay porn.

At the same time that women have gotten more open about their desires, porn was getting more explicit (and prevalent). Naturally, porn for women came along.

While that was going on, something else was happening, something you may not know about, especially if you’re a man. Romance novels — a genre read almost exclusively by women — have gotten more sexually explicit, too. Imprints like Spice, Black Lace, and Nexus are putting out some racy stuff. These are not your mother’s Harlequin Romances.

Do you see where I’m going with this?

That’s right. There are now erotic romance novels featuring two-men, one-woman threesomes (both MMF and MFM).

I’ve read only one of these so far: Menage by Emma Holly. It’s about a woman named Kate who rents a room to a gay couple. She joins them in bed and the rest is history. (By the way, I find it interesting that the first three editions of this novel had a woman representing Kate on their covers, but the latest cover shows a man’s torso.)

 

 

 

I’ve discovered a group of women who rave about their favorite MMF erotic novels at GoodReads.com. In fact, they commonly tag their reviews so you can easily find popular MMF or MM erotica. (Some readers don’t seem to distinguish between MMF and MFM, so if that’s crucial for you, check the plot summaries carefully.) Here are some novels, in no particular order, that may soon find their way to my to-read pile:

I welcome your comments.

Women, do you read these novels? How did you discover them? What do you like about them?

If you’re a gay or bi man, how do you feel about a subculture of women taking such an interest in what you do in bed?

Yours,
Vickie P.

Two scenes (plus some advice): In each of them, two men make love to a woman (Nina herself in the first scene). The woman takes the guys in pretty much every way imaginable. It’s really hot, especially if you’re a woman who has this fantasy.

What doesn’t happen: The guys do not touch each other. This may be a relief to some, a disappointment to others.


When I heard that the January-February 2009 Playgirl would be its last printed issue, I had to get a copy. I was never keen on the mag, though. Like most women, I prefer some kind of story with my sexually explicit material, so I tend to go for either erotic fiction or porn videos with a plot. Nevertheless, I always thought it was kinda cool that there was this magazine with pictures of nude men aimed at women — the feminine answer to Playboy. So I wanted to see how the last issue of Playgirl compared with the ones I remembered giggling about (and lusting over) with my girlfriends.

Men

The issue displays lots of nude men, as you would expect. Everywhere you look, your gaze meets penises, from flaccid to fully erect. (This was not always the case. For much of Playgirl‘s history, erections were taboo, and for one forlorn year in the 1980s, the magazine was completely dickless.) There’s a pictorial of a man and a woman, both nude and doing everything but actually having sex. However — and this is a big defect — the guys are just not as drop-dead gorgeous as I remember them being. Compare last coverboy Sean Patrick in the accompanying image, who appears nude in the magazine, with 1986 Man of the Year Brian Buzzini (turn off “Safe Search” to get the best view; yes, you can even find the famous centerfold of Brian Buzzini sporting a lovely erection).

Articles

After you get done gazing at the nude men, what else is there to see? There’s a sweet farewell letter from editor Nicole Caldwell to the “fierce Playgirl posse, sharing a common commitment to unearth the world’s most beautiful men, and dishing about issues women like us deal with every day.” Women write about their experiences having sex in Second Life and having sex with strap-ons. There are more serious articles about genital mutilation and prostitution in Amsterdam. There’s some all-too-short erotic fiction. There are some travel articles and movie reviews. Again, it’s all a pale reflection of the old Playgirl.

Ambience

The magazine has always been marketed as “entertainment for women.” In recent years, editors have admitted that at least 50% of the Playgirl‘s readers were men. The advertising seems to have caught up with that. On just the first few pages, there are ads for toys in which to insert one’s dick, creams to enlarge one’s dick, and just plain lots of dicks (“the world’s largest gay porn portal”). It doesn’t seem like the haven for female sexuality it once was.

The Future of Playgirl

Playgirl lives on as a Web site and producer of erotic videos aimed at women. It’s not the same as having a nudie magazine out there, just for us. The magazine was never as widely distributed as its male counterpart, so you may have to look around to find that last issue, and in any case, it will soon disappear from newsstands altogether. (It’s already selling on some collectors’ sites for $25.)

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  • heyhiall: Hi, Findsome, I admire your goals -- to show your wife some good porn and to give her a threesome. Most of the porn I like is of the MMF varie
  • Findsomeporn4mywife: I'm trying to find some MFM porn to help pique my wife's interest in doing an MFM, without being too obvious at first. I want this to be her idea. If
  • heyhiall: Thanks, babe. Welcome and come again soon. Very Truly Yours, Vickie P.

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